
Happily married but
Posted Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous | 738 views | 14 comments
I'm happily married and have a very good sex life with my husband but I do have bi curious thoughts and fantasies. I wonder what it'd really feel like to be with another woman. Any other wives in the same boat?
Commented Sep 10, 2013 by anonymous
I am a young woman who is attracted to a seemingly happily married woman...your post gives me hope mmmm..
Commented Sep 9, 2013 by Rusty
Its just curiosity. We've done this. The danger here is separation of sex and relationship. We are naturally prone to attach ourselves emotionally to whomever we connect with physically. So if you have a threesome, your husband has a very good chance at being attached emotionally to your girl as much as physical, unless of course he has sex with other women all the time and has grown numb to the emotional. If that's the case, then your sex life may be just physical. If he just watches, he may be turned on by the girl-girl action but then the danger is seeing you only as a sexual object and not 'his own' in relationship. If you are with another girl without him around, then you push him out and the danger is the separation. In short, there is danger all around for pursuing this. Its taken us years to get over experiencing other partners and I don't believe we will ever get back to where we were. Be VEEEERY careful with this.
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
I'm the author of this post and I replied to some of the valuable input given. For the other replies, I know most men, if not all, would love a FFM, but as I mentioned I don't think I would feel comfortable with him around.
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
I'm the author of this post and I replied to some of the valuable input given. For the other replies, I know most men, if not all, would love a FFM, but as I mentioned I don't think I would feel comfortable with him around.
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
Was there anything in particular that made you lose interest? Was it because he was around? Was it because it was already planned? What if it just happens without planning? Would that make a difference) .
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
We did that several times and I agree every time we did it added a lot to the enjoyment of both us. The thing is that I'm not sure if it would be comfortable to see him touching another woman and if I feel fully free to explore this side with him around (at least at first time). Thank you for your input.
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
Thank you for caring to share this valuable thought. I think I should follow this advise though I have no clue what first step to take, but I know I should work on it. One more fire: thank you.
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
trust me, if my wife came home an said she wanted a 3some with me an another woman, id die of happiness and excitment
Commented Aug 18, 2013 by anonymous
i'm happily married and for year's I wanted to see what it felt like to be with another woman and one night I finally had my chance. .. my husband watched the whole thing and all I can say is that I got it out of my system and I will never do it again but hey that's just me
Commented Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous
yeah.. most guys really want that! I think if you told him he would be happy
Commented Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous
Maybe you should try to have sex with your husband and another woman at the same time
Commented Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous
You could maybe share your fantasies with your husband. He might also like the idea of seeing you with another woman. I'm bi curious and my husband and I have talked about a threesome so that I can explore my feelings without my husband feeling left out.
Commented Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous
Happily married so what's better than cheating, bitch.
Commented Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous
u should go for it... but be discreet about it at first