We have been renting an apartment for a couple months now. She's a few years older than me but we get along fine (31 and 24) After she went to work the other night I noticed her facebook was still logged in. Thinking I'd like or share a few goofy pictures/pages on her timeline. So I started snooping. In a message string with a mutual friend I found four pics. Two with her bent over, belly sagging all over the place. One really nice face/boob shot and one close up of a very wet... area with the lips spread. He was basically begging for a three way with the both of us... He's been my friend since I was little basically my big brother. He's never said or did anything weird like that around me. Never really thought about sleeping with him I know he doesn't like chubby girls. Now I guess I should say that we are extremely casual around the house, when its just us anyway. So I've pretty much seen it all before. not like this though. I know it's strange but I feel like she knows I was snooping. Like she left it logged in on purpose... Im probably just being paranoid but I swear shes been running around in her birthday suit more and more and doing her best to talk me into it. I dont really mind tbh and I used to do it once in a while so I guess I dont have much room to complain... but we never hung out like that. Maybe when I was putting lotion on or just lounging around in a towel after a shower. I give in most of the time. I know its strange but I will admit its fun to see and be seen by a neutral party.... but its starting to get weird. She's constantly trying to tickle me, spanking when I have to bend over. Pinching certain places when Im not paying attention... things like that. I get her back of course... its just that sometimes she takes it way way too far. She's been single since her husband passed, so I chalk up most of her weirdness to being lonely/desperate and left over grief. And I really dont mind humoring her but I just can't see myself in bed with both of them. I'm not sure how to handle the situation. I dont want to hurt her feelings but It feels like she's just trying to work me into thinking something like that would be fun any... anonymous advice?