This is really sad. One of the things that human beings need most is to feel loved. I know that you said there are a lot of problems with your relationship. But if you're dead-set on not leaving, you really should try to tackle these issues one at a time. If you don't, your life and the lives of your children--who are far more affected by your relationship with your husband than you may realize--will continue to become more and more unbearable. And, regardless of what you look like or are like, you deserve far better than that. Talk to a marriage counselor. Or at least speak with a mutual friend about some of your issues. It's going to be quite difficult, but it won't ultimately be worse than living in the special kind of hell created by a lack of intimacy and love.

I got into trouble by buying signed posters of some Internet celebs. It turns out, the female inadequacy complex is rather powerful. Apparently, making comments about hot bitches, is a red flag to their gender. Simply put - who gives a fuck? If he provides, fucks, supplies etc. reap the benefit. If he's not going to treat you right, fuck him off. I suggest you make comments on football stars - If a man reacts the same way - punch him in the sweaty, fleshy patch where his balls should be.

Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy who is tired of fucking her. That's just the way. He should still be nice to you though.

Niiiiice. Troll much?

No, it isn't Steph. Don't go reading into things online. Talk with your wife.

I've never nagged him about it. I've never told him I feel this way. I just smile and laugh but inside I just want him to tell me once that I'm beautiful, pretty, or even just cute. I get hit on at work or in stores so at least some men think I'm attractive. Right now I'm the only one working. Its been that way for years. I've never contemplated adultery but there are other issues in the relationship besides the one I posted. I took a vow to only part upon death but sometimes I just want out. I want to take my children and leave. Wait a year or two, then start dating again. I have felt so alone in this marriage that the only difference it will make is one less person to cook for and clean up after.

you must be a fat fugly bastard then

You're a fool, "service your king". Shut the fuck up and learn some goddamn respect! He didn't have to marry her, she could have found someone who wanted her and cherished her. I swear some men think out of their asses.

You're a fool, "service your king". Shut the fuck up and learn some goddamn respect! He didn't have to marry her, she could have found someone who wanted her and cherished her. I swear some men think out of their asses.

whats your surname

If you are only looking at women or thinking about them, I don't see the problem it's not like you are with a stripper or prostitute. And I'm a woman btw.

At least he lets you suck some delicious cock when the attractive girls make him horny, you are lucky to service your king.

Wow, my wife always tries to lay the same guilt trip on me. Funny thing, she never ever even tries to figure out anything, she just assumes that if I look at another woman then I must want that other woman.... WELL NO SHIT! Of course I would like to be with some super hot sexy woman, but the simple reality it I am POOR, I could not EVER afford the cost of pursuing a woman like I fantasize about, BUT COULD THE BITCH JUST LET ME HAVE MY FUCKING DREAM? No, she wants to nag, nag, nag, whine and cry, and make me just wish I was single again, if I were single, I don't entertain any foolish notion that I would be dating any super-models, but at least I could DREAM without some dumb cunt trying to lay a guilt trip on me.

Wow, I feel for you. My husband does the same thing and I'm sick of it.

Ye it's is

i feel bad cuz this is what my wife says to me all the time. your names not steph is it?