My husband is nice to many people & me sometimes, but just rude. he has a tendency to run his mouth about things before he thinks. Many of those times he finds ways to reflect issues with himself off of him and turn them onto other people. It is annoying and angers me, we have been married for 6 months and I have already thought about annulment at least three times. He is very stingy and selfish. He talks about wanting me to quit my job and focus on school etc.... (I am almost done with my Masters) but then gives dirty looks and complains. I am a nursing assistant at a psych hospital and currently earn in the $30,000, & go to school full-time. My husband earns six figures, has two motorcycles, a truck, and we live in a nice area to specify his personal needs. I have a beat up late 90's Honda Civic. I work sometimes up to 16 hrs just to make ends meet. I drive 40 min to an hour and a half to get to school and/or work everyday. I pay almost half of the rent ( We live in a more ritzy part of an already expensive town), the electricity bill, my cell phone bill, groceries, gas, and other things around the house, plus do the majority of the housework and cook. He does help me, but now moreso after I have had to ask till I turn blue in the face. He pays for my health insurance (my job does not offer it for the type of worker I am) and my car insurance which is $40 a month (I try to pay that when I can, but am currently behind 2 months, plus he only added me to receive discounts for all his other vehicles). MFT is helping a little bit, but honestly, I do not know how much I can take. I am very stressed out and sick, but wonder if I just made a huge mistake marrying him. Then maybe there is something wrong with me. He offers to help me, and I decline about 90% of the time. Then he has the nerve to tell other people that he pays for everything. In what world is he living in? If he paid for "everything" I hope I would have some better %@#$, than I have. We have no kids, and what a relief. I would say some good things that I see in him, but sometimes its so blurred I do not know if he is faking it or being genuine. I am not ugly, fat, nor dumb. I am not a golddigger, and am conservative in spending. We share the same likes of gaming, skateboarding, reading, traveling (he promises we will, someday/ does not have to be far even camping), movies, and eating etc....but we got along better when we did not live together and I only saw him on weekends. I am tired and my nerves are shot. People, PLEASE DO NOT let this be you, as I have chosen this path and have gotten so deep, where the damage is done. I still have time, maybe I will get out of this rut soon.