Gay and in love with straight best friend
Posted Nov 2, 2014 by anonymous | 238 views | 7 comments
I'm a gay 15 year old high school boy and I'm so in love with my straight best friend and I'm just really crazy about him.. We're really close but I just wish we were in a romantic relationship and not just friends. I have no idea what I should do and I want to tell him how I feel but I don't want to risk losing what we have.
Commented Nov 4, 2014 by anonymous
Thanks for the advice and sharing your story. It means a lot. :)
Commented Nov 4, 2014 by anonymous
I would talk to him and also tell him if he is ever curious that he could experiment with you and you wouldn't force him into anything and would take it slow , maybe he will like how it feels and become bi. I was the Sami spot as your friend in school, I was friends with this other guy and I found out he liked me and we talked about it. He told me it was ok if he wanted to ever experiment and was ever curious. I turned him down right away but I did get kinda curious about it 3 months later and I asked him what it was like to kiss another guy and be inside him. Well we did and it was actually pretty good and we still mess around to this day and he is married now
Commented Nov 3, 2014 by anonymous
You're welcome, little buddy!! Let me know how things go. I hope he loves you back!!
Commented Nov 3, 2014 by anonymous
Thank you so much!!!!
Commented Nov 3, 2014 by anonymous
OK, that's great that he knows and is accepting. If I were you, I would say in a very off the cuff kind of way, " you are an amazing friend, if you were gay I would ask you out on a date". Try it and look for a response. He very well might surprise you! I hope he wants you as much as you want him...you sound like a very sweet guy!
Commented Nov 3, 2014 by anonymous
He knows and he's actually really nice about it
Commented Nov 2, 2014 by anonymous
I feel for you, dude! One question...does he know you are gay? If not, can you get a sense of how he feels about gay people? Is accepting or intolerant ? I kind of think the answer is in those two questions. If he knows you are gay and accepts you as you are, then you should tell him. If does not know and is intolerant then proceed with caution. I hope it works out for you. Being young and in love is both exciting and scary!