confused so bad!
Posted Mar 18, 2012 by anonymous | 600 views | 6 comments
I am 47 years old and i am married and my wife has been clinically depressed for about 3 years now. I have a new lady in my life who is 22 years old, she says the age difference doesn't bother her. I want to divorce my wife but honestly she has done nothing other than get sick! I don't want to hurt her more but I do not love her anymore, and my new love makes me feel like a real man again! my wife doesn't do much of anything other than sleep, go to church, eat, then sleep again. I had to get this off my chest! I know some will think I am awful, but it really sucks, i feel like my wife is not even the same person i fell in love with 10 years ago. we have been married 7 and don't have any kids together. anyway this is my story!
Commented Mar 30, 2012 by anonymous
Who are you kidding? This 22 year old will leave you. The only reason she's after you is because she's desperate and selfish. The age 'doesn't matter' now, but what about ten years from now? If you both even have the maturity to make it that long. If you can't help your wife, get divorced.
Commented Mar 26, 2012 by anonymous
would you still be thinking about leaving your wife if this other woman was not around? if you had never met her, if you hadn't met someone else, would you still be thinking about leaving? you need to very very seriously think about this. on your own. without being around either of them. if the answer is yes, then leave her, but make sure she has support first. if the answer is no, then you need to break it off with the girlfriend and get back to trying to be a good husband. either way, the wife doesn't need to know about the other woman. it won't help her at all.
Commented Mar 19, 2012 by anonymous
You took vows man. When you got married you vowed to be there for her in sickness and health. Instead of being with a 22 year old, you should be there to support your wife. Think about how you would feel if the situation were reversed.
Commented Mar 19, 2012 by anonymous
First of all, have a face to face talk with your wife & tell the feelings you are getting about her. If she agrees with your thoughts no reason to divorce then.
Commented Mar 19, 2012 by anonymous
There's no confusion. It just tempting to abandon your obligations.
Commented Mar 18, 2012 by anonymous
talk to her about it/ get her sum help dont just do nothing