Hello, Well i am a 15 (almost 16) year old girl that is in love with a boy! i know im only 15 your asking why do you think your in love? Well im going into the 10th grade next year and i met this guy whenever i started the 7th grade. we have gone out (dated) on and off all through jr. high and have gotten to be really close friends! i still really like him alot and i cant seem to move myself on to anyone else! i think about him all the time, and i cant get him off my mind. we spend half of our time together anyway because we are best friends! Well, the problem comes b/c he recently asked some other girl out. this tore me into a million different pieces! i have tried talkin to my friends about it but all they can say is that 'ITS TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON' ! BLAH! no matter how hard i try, the feeling that i feel for this guy will not go away and i dont know what to do! he is still with this girl and told me that he still loves me but in a different way than he LIKES that other girl. he also told me that if things started getting weird between me and him than he would break up with that other girl b/c our friendship meant more to him than anything with any other girl! so in a way its kinda hard b/c i dont want to move on b/c im afraid of losing him, or missing out on that once chance that if he wants to come back then i would be with someone else then he would never think about getting with me again! this guy means the world to me and i know im only 15 but if we werent meant to be together rin the near future then i dont think God would of made us as close as we are right now! my mom tried to tell me ' as soon as he relizes what he is missing out on then everything will be alright' but what if im not here anymore! (even tho i dont think im going anywhere). i try to make him and everyone else think that im doing ok on the outside and that him being with the other girl isnt bothering me! but no one really knows the huge amount of pain that im going through inside! ive gotten to where im really happy on the outside b/c if i showed what i really felt on the inside i would be depressed and not happy and thats just not me! only one friend has told me that she has seen a difference in my behavior... and my goal is not to let anyone know the pain i feel inside! but will you please help me so i wont have to lie anymore! i just cant handle it!!! But the reason i was writing, was b/c i just dont know what to do! im in no shape to move on b/c i just cant make myself! what is your advice on this topic? what do you think is the best thing for me to do? i really need your help! Thanx for listening to me! Your friend Amy