But sex can't buy love.
Posted Jan 23, 2013 by Sinfool | 382 views | 1 comments
I'm in love with someone, and I don't think he's in love with me. But I'm in love with him. I'm a virgin. Some nights I dream of giving myself up to him spontaneously. Now I'm not a stupid girl. I know sex doesn't buy love. But I can't help dreaming of it since it seems that it is only that and time that stands between us. They say giving yourself up to someone is the greatest gift you can give. Especially for people who've never experienced sex before. But then, I'm torn in wanting to wait for marriage, because that to me spells out true love. That's when I'll know the feeling is mutual, not has potential to be with time. But I want him. And I want him to know how much he means to me. I want him to feel it. What do I do?
Commented Jan 23, 2013 by anonymous
Read the numerous posts on this site relating how women have given in to a guy, practically giving their virginity on a silver platter, only to have it not work out. The truth is that women wonder, "Is this person someone I could marry?" when they first meet a guy. Guys don't ask that question until they've gone as far as they can physically (2nd base, 3rd base, all the way), THEN they ask that question. Its gotta be hard being a woman, because men will front, say whatever we need to to get into your pants, then start to realize we don't want to be tied down ... So we move on. If you want to live without regret, tell the guy, but don't give it up ... Its often the chase, the effort we have to put into getting that physical intimacy (if he's a decent guy) that makes us respect a woman.