Whew if I ever become your friend, remind me never to piss you off lol. What did she do?

I copied your post and emailed it word for word to a friend of mine in the hopes that he will send it on to the bitch in his life. It was perfect!

Ok. I love you for making that xD. i also have 'friends' that make me want to harm them physically, too. I guess we all do at at least one point in our lives. I understand. not drug-wise of course (im only 13) but trying to deal with some skanks.

OMG. I know somebody that I wish would say this to one of their 'friends'.

well the reason she called me that is because she thinks that i hold out on her when it comes to pot. but i talked to my other friend who was there as well and he said that thing about drugs is that if the 'i owe you, you owe me' shit comes up and becomes an issue then you have a problem regarding said drug. which is very true. i don't advocate doing drugs at all, i just smoke. but i hate that our vices have to come between us especially if we have been friends for such a long time. it's annoying and i could go into a detailed account of all that has happened, but in the end it doesn't really matter. ughhgh. well like i said thanks for your help and i'm going to go decompress! so enough of this negativity! :)

it sounds like you know what you have to do so that you're happy. Agreed, its good to give people second chances but when they constantly blow them, you have to distance yourself from them. It sounds like she's not as good of a friend to you as you need her to be. If we can't accept others for who they are, then its up to us to accept them or reject them in our lives. Her calling you racial slurs is an ugly glimpse into her personality. She needs to grow up and you need to walk away like you said.

whoa whoa whoa. back it up there. i don't surround myself with people who make me feel this way. this is one person i'm talking about whom i've been friends with for twelve years. we took a break from our friendship for one year and we both have said that that was the best year of our high school career (ironically the same year we werent friends). she's my friend because she gives good advice and we have the same type of humor among other things. however, when it commons to aspects such as common courtesy, manners, and consideration, she really sucks. she hasn't irritated me to this point in forever, but like i stated earlier my original post was also just a summation of what has been building up. it's because we hang out too much and to be honest, she has changed back into the selfish, defensive person i left behind in high school. she was doing so well when we became friends again and that lasted a long time til months ago. i do have low self-esteem when it comes to things like body image, but otherwise no, i have an array of wonderful friends, but most of them don't live in the same area as i do and the ones that do have a hectic schedule with school and work and such, like me. But, you are righta bout the make up some excuse part because I usually end up doing that. However, last night really was just the final shove to make me want to take a break from her. What I really need is time away from her to figure things out, but in the meantime, i'm not going to speak with her. it's been going downhill for a while and last night was just the stop, y'know? it's just such a mess, so for right now, i'm just trying to distract myself with things that make me happy and just move the hell on. thanks for your input!

Why do you surround yourself with people who make you feel like this? Scrape the shit off your shoes and move on. Anyone who gets you this irate can't be good to have hanging around. Unless of course you yourself suffer from low self esteem and don't think you can attract a better quality of friend than that? Odds are you'll make up some excuse to forgive her and you're right back at square one. Nothing will change unless you do.

haha yeah or just smoke the bowl that originally started the fight. :)

thats sucks, but just relax, go hang out somewhere

way too much shit to say really. it's been building up for awhile. it just really hurt my feelings.

what did this person do to you?