Best friend, it's complicated
Posted Jun 9, 2013 by anonymous | 412 views | 6 comments
So for the last 8 months, I've been fucking my best friend, and as far as we both know, nobody else has a clue. Which is kind of an achievement when you both live in college, I guess. But that's not the issue. The issue I guess is that he had a girlfriend when this all started, and even though they broke up more than six months ago, he still won't make up his mind as to whether he wants to go out or not. his reasoning is that he doesn't want anything to ruin our friendship, because he's already had that happen just before (and no, I won't let him take all the responsibility with what happened there). Part of me thinks that maybe if I call it quits with whatever the hell it is we actually are, he might actually make a decision, but I suppose the other part of me, the way more pessimistic, but probably realistic part, knows that it's never going to go anywhere, and i should just bail on the whole thing. I just... Hell, with everything else going on, I don't want to change it, because I really need someone there for me just now, (and that is so way another post, because I don't think I go properly explain how complicated everything is just now) but I can't stay waiting around for him forever. I'm not sure if I'm just saying this to get it off my chest, but I suppose any advice would be appreciated...
Commented Jun 10, 2013 by anonymous
I'd probably be sorta broken up about it for awhile... Like, maybe TMI, but he was the first guy that I did anything with too, lol. The deal is we stay friend's whatever happens though. And I think he is over his ex, they broke up and they weren't over it, so they got back together and then all this happened. I'd pick up on it if he was down over it still, I think. And yeah, there's other guys that I'd probably be more interested in if this doesn't go anywhere, but that's neither here or there lol. One of them does kind of look like Jon Snow though...
Commented Jun 10, 2013 by anonymous
Yeah, but we both have another 4 years of college still. Idk, I've spent basically nearly 16 months with a crush on the guy, but I really don't know if it'd ever go anywhere. Both of us are way too indecisive to take charge of it lol, and i just tend to go with the path of least resistance on most things. I mean, I don't know that'd I'd want to marry him, (which isn't saying he's not a great guy, I've just never even considered marriage or kids or anything, which probably makes me really weird for a girl... He is great with kids though) sorry, sidetracked lol. I like what we have, I just would like to be kind of just more open about it I suppose. Idk.
Commented Jun 10, 2013 by anonymous
im in the same situation but i have a backup guy in case my friend decides hes not over his ex ill be able to happily move on
Commented Jun 10, 2013 by anonymous
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Commented Jun 9, 2013 by anonymous
I gotten wrapped up in something like that your best bet is keep up with the routine and wait till your done with college to decide if you want to keep it up or move on. if you feel he doesn't ever want the relationship part then fuck him till your burnt out don't over stress it. with today's world you wait longer for what you want.
Commented Jun 9, 2013 by anonymous
You're a straight up ho-bag. (; Keep trickin'