being married is not supposed be so sad and hurtful
Posted Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous | 580 views | 11 comments
i have been married for just over 2 yrs. i am unhappy more than i am happy! i have no friends anymore because my husband told me we just needed eachother and friends make trouble. in the last 2months he decided to treat me like shit and even when most men in my life have tried to make me feel like dirt or gum on their shoe, this man i gave all my heart 2 has suceeded. this man is the one i thought was above and better than the others has turned out to be the worst! he does not work and never has since i've known him. he claims to be bipolor, so i suggested disabilty as i workED in the medical field and noticed he did have some issues. well i did not know he would use any problems anyone said he had as a crutch to act like a complete jackass because he can. WHAT ONCE WAS A STRONG MAN HAS TURNED SO WEAK. all he wants to do now is play games on his computer or the ps3. he does not want to do ANYTHING ELSE! he used to work in the yard, play with the kids, and treat me like a queen! every since his disabilty went through he's the total oppisite of what i knew and married! if i had met the man he has become..........i would have NEVER even dated him! i feel so stuck! i wonder if i am waisting my life? he will not see what he has become and i don't want to live this way!
Commented Jan 30, 2012 by anonymous
GET OUT NOW! Do you want to be 28 and divorced, or 48 with three kids and divorced.? Choose wisely. You only live once. (staying & doing nothing is actually chooosing the second option)
Commented Jan 28, 2012 by anonymous
try talking to him and if not then marriage counseling.
Commented Nov 12, 2011 by anonymous
Yeah i mean you could have backed out of the relationship at any time you wanted but you chose to stay with a guy who wont commit and treats you badly.
Commented Nov 12, 2011 by anonymous
This is exactly the point. From your report; it's appears that you created your own problems.
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
Get the fuck out...he won't change.
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
You knew he wouldnt work and you knew he had bipolar issues and yetyou married the fucker anyway?
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
GO BACK TO WORK AND GET YOUR LIFE BACK UNDER CONTROL. GET YOUR FRIENDS BACK, OR MAKE NEW. LET THIS MAN SIT IN WHAT SOUNDS ALOT LIKE SELF PITTY AND MOVE ON TO FRESHER GREENER PASTURES CHIKKI. SOMETIMES WE JUST HAVE TO CALL IT WHAT IT IS, A BAD DECISION! JUST FIX YOUR BAD JUDGMENT. IF HE WANTS TO PLAY GAMES, YOU GO ON AND FIND A FELLA THAT IS EVERYTHING YOU WANT AND DESERVE. DON'T SETTLE!!! TO MANY PEOPLE DO THAT! NOBODY SHOULD EVER BE WITH SOMEONE WHO THEY ARE NOT HAPPY WITH. EVEN FOR A DAY OF UNHAPPY IS TOO LONG.LIFE IS TOO SHORT.
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
Once people get on medications that alter them. you rearly get that person back. They were weak minded to start. Best you just go on your way and stop wasting time. If he refuses to change, don't feel guilty your not sick.
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
Some medication will do this to some. Is he on any that could cause this?
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
CALL ME
Commented Nov 11, 2011 by anonymous
Get a fuckbuddy for on the side, girly. That's what they are for! :)