advice please.
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 172 views | 3 comments
Ok, I hope you're all doing well. It is it considered racist if I don't find black women attractive? I'll tell you why.... on this site I am a member of someone has tried playing cupid with a lady who we will call 'A', that's her first initial, and myself. There was a lot of talk on this site recently saying if a white man was to turn this lady down he must be racist!! Well, even though she is an attractive woman am I racist for not finding her attractive in 'that' way. I can't help it if I find white women attractive. Help because I don't know how to tell this lady that I'm not interested without hurting her feelings AND having the community on this site turn against me!!
Commented Oct 9, 2013 by anonymous
No, I wouldn't find this racist either, preference is a personal choice, so long as it is not bread in hate, ignorance, or prejudice, and I"m black.
Commented May 25, 2011 by anonymous
remarkable question, the answer to which is NO, it is NOT racist to not find someone of another race unattractive. People who accuse do so because they lack any sense of articulation/common sense and the world's full of them. Write 'em off and go about your business of finding someone YOU LIKE. Geesh.
Commented Apr 23, 2011 by anonymous
No it's not 'racists' people are either joking or just stupid.