a broke my mom's heart
Posted Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous | 636 views | 8 comments
my parents divorced couple of months ago and I'm living with my dad he asked me not to see my mom and not to talk to her and I promised I wouldn't. I love my mom but my dad has done everything he could for me to keep me happy during thees months he is spending lots of money so i can play tennis every day he is spending lots of time on finding a great school for me in spain so I can practice tennis while Im studying... any way my mom came to my school today to see me and I told someone to tell her i don't want to see her and she should go back home I knew i broke her heart so badly it broke my heart too but I promised i wouldn't talk to her so I'm not really sure if it was my fault or my parents fault I mean they put me in this situation but even if its their fault i still feel guilty....
Commented Nov 27, 2014 by anonymous
When a parent tells you not to talk to another parent that is a sign of them using you as a pawn to hurt the other parent. That is NOT love. Talk to your mother and get away from your father as quickly as you can. He does not care about your emotional health, he only cares about himself.
Commented Apr 11, 2013 by anonymous
You must talk with her at least one time.
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
You should not take sides or judge either of them but remain open and in communication with both of them. If your father can't handle that, to hell with him.
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
Also you're right you dont deserve to be put in the middle of this. Thats what makes what he is doing even worse.
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
Well you should spend time with your mom and tell your dad if he really loved you he'd understand. Who cares if he gets his feelings hurt bc he obviously doesnt care he is hurting you and your mother. Sons are supposed to protect their moms. Defend your mom and let your dad know how much he is hurting you and how much you need her. Could you imagine if something happened to her and it was too late? You would be heart broken.
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
I know what I did was wrong I totally get that but I'm not sure what is right to do I mean if my dad asks me I can't lie and if I say the truth It will be bad for her too. I don't want more fights and I'm sick of that so i just wanted to be out of this situation and I know it was the worst way to do that. I wanted to tell you it's not about money but now that I'm thinking it feels like it's a little about that too and I hate myself for that.
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
u should meet ur mom without ur dad's knowledge,i would do that if i were u
Commented Apr 10, 2013 by anonymous
Its your mother! What will you do if she dies?? Its despicable that you are selling out to your dad so he will spoil you. I can't believe someone trade their mother for some money. Thats just sick. YOU are responsible for your own decisions.